Letting Go When Love Hurts – Chhodna Kab Zaroori Ho Jata Hai

Kabhi-kabhi sabse mushkil cheez pyaar karna nahi hoti…

sabse mushkil hota hai chhodna.

Dil maanta hai,
lekin dimaag poochta hai:
“Thoda aur try kar loon?”
“Shayad sab theek ho jaye?”

Par jab pyaar sirf dard de,
toh rukna bhi khud ke saath na-insaafi hoti hai.

Letting Go Ka Matlab Kya Hai?

Letting go ka matlab ye nahi hota ki pyaar jhootha tha.
Iska matlab hota hai:

• Khud ki peace ko choose karna
• Un cheezon ko chhodna jo hurt kar rahi hain
• Accept karna ki har cheez fix nahi hoti

Kabhi-kabhi log nahi,
situations chhodni hoti hain.

Signs Ki Ab Let Go Karna Chahiye

1. Respect Missing Ho

Jahan izzat nahi, wahan pyaar nahi tikta.

2. Sirf Aap Effort Kar Rahe Ho

Relationship ek taraf se nahi chalta.

3. Repeated Hurt

Same pain baar-baar mil raha ho.

4. Peace Ki Jagah Anxiety

Soch ke hi heavy feel hota ho.

Letting Go Kyun Itna Mushkil Hota Hai?

1️⃣ Memories

Saath bitaya time dil ko rok leta hai.

2️⃣ Fear of Being Alone

Akele rehne ka darr.

3️⃣ Hope

“Shayad wo badal jaye.”

4️⃣ Attachment

Pyaar se zyada attachment hurt karta hai.

Letting Go vs Giving Up

Letting Go	Giving Up
Self-respect	Fear
Healing	Escape
Acceptance	Avoidance
Growth	Stuck feeling

Chhodna kamzori nahi hota,
kabhi-kabhi courage hota hai.

Letting Go Kaise Kare?

1. Reality Accept Kare

Fantasy aur reality alag hoti hain.

2. Boundaries Cut Kare

Constant contact healing slow karta hai.

3. Self-Care Start Kare

Apni energy wapas laiye.

4. Support System Banaye

Friends, family ya trusted log.

5. Time Ko Time De

Healing instant nahi hoti.

Ek Sach Jo Samajhna Zaroori Hai

“Jo cheez aapko tod rahi hai,
wo aapka hissa nahi ho sakti.”

Aapko wo chhodna hoga jo aapko khud se door kar raha hai.

Conclusion

Letting go dard deta hai,
lekin wahi dard future ki peace banta hai.

Jab aap khud ko choose karte ho,
tab zindagi dheere-dheere phir se muskurane lagti hai.

Aap weak nahi ho.
Aap brave ho — kyunki aapne khud ko bachaya.